Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Lost Your Job? Don't Lose Hope! by Asma bint Shameem


As world markets suffer from the ongoing global financial crisis and housing markets slump, as jobs are lost and unemployment rates rise high, as businesses close down and people don't have a source of income, you worry.

You worry about the growing global recession and its challenges. And you worry about your family, your kids, how to provide for them, how to put food on the table, how to pay the bills....

In times such as these, this is a reminder for my brothers and sisters, as the reminder always benefits the believers.

"But remind, the Reminder will benefit the believers." (Surah adh-Dhaariyaat: 55)

KEEP YOUR IMAAN STRONG

1. Remember....nothing happens except by the will and decree of Allaah:

Belief in al-qadar (the Divine decree) is one of the pillars of our Imaan, and no one’s faith is complete without it. So if you lost your job, it was by the Will and Decree of Allaah. Allaah says:

“No calamity befalls on the earth or in yourselves but it is inscribed in the Book of Decrees (al-Lawh al-Mahfooz) before We bring it into existence. Verily, that is easy for Allaah” (al-Hadeed:22)

Also the Prophet (sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) said: "Know that what has passed you by was not going to befall you, and that what has befallen you was not going to pass you by. And know that victory comes with patience, relief with affliction, and ease with hardship." (Tirmidhi-Saheeh)

2. It is Allaah that provides for you and NOT your employer;

Remember that Allaah is al-Razzaaq (the Provider) and the Best of those who provide. It was Allaah who was providing you before you lost your job and it is still He that will provide you after you lost it. The one who fed you when you were in your mother's womb will also feed you when you are an adult. And it was not you who was putting food on the table for your family. Rather it was Allaah using you as a means to provide for them.

"Except for Allah, is there any other Creator who provides for you out of heaven and earth? There is no god except He. Where then do you turn?" (Surah Faatir:3)

3. Know that your provision was written for you before you were even born:

Allaah had sent an angel to write down your provision for you when you were just a few days old in your mother's womb, and you will get it, no matter what.

"(the angel) says, ‘O Lord, male or female? Doomed or blessed? What is his provision? What is his lifespan?’ And that is written in his mother’s womb.” (Bukhaari)

There is nothing that can take your provision away. And you will not die until you have had your full provision. The Prophet (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said:

“The Holy Spirit (Jibreel) has inspired to me that no soul will die until it has completed its appointed term and received its provision in full, so fear Allaah and do not be desperate in seeking provision, and no one of you should be tempted to seek provision by means of committing sin if it is slow in coming to him, for that which is with Allaah can only be attained by obeying Him.” (Saheeh al-Jaami’, 2085)

4. It is a test for you from Allaah:

Remember that disasters and calamities are a test of a believer’s patience. And so He will test you to see how strong you are and how you will react to His test. And know if Allaah loves a person, He tests him.


"We shall test you with something of fear and hunger, and decrease of goods, life and fruits. Give glad tidings to the patient." (al-Baqarah:155)

5. Surely, it is a means of expiation of your sins:

Calamities are a means of expiation of sin and raising one's status. The Prophet (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said:

“There is nothing that befalls a believer, not even a thorn that pricks him, but Allaah will record one good deed for him and will remove one bad deed from him.” (Muslim).

And he said: “Trials will continue to befall the believing man and woman, with regard to themselves, their children and their wealth, until they meet Allaah with no sin on them.” (Tirmidhi, saheeh by al-Albaani)

WHAT TO DO

1. Have tawakkul on Allaah

Always think to yourself...Allaah wouldn't decree something for me unless it was good for me. Have faith in Allaah's Words....

"But you may hate a thing although it is good for you, and may love a thing although it is evil for you. Allah knows, and you do not." (Baqarah:216)

The Prophet (sal Allaahu Alaiyhi wa sallam) said: “If you put your trust in Allaah in the true sense, He will grant your provision as He grants to the birds, who go out in the morning hungry and come back full.” (Ahmad, Ibn Maajah and al-Tirmidhi).

2. Be patient

Remember that with every difficulty comes ease and with hardship comes relief.

“How wonderful is the affair of the believer, for all his affairs are good and this does not apply to anyone except the believer. If something good happens to him he is grateful, and that is good for him, and if something bad happens to him he is patient, and that is good for him.” (Muslim).

3. Review your life and make LOTS of Istighfaar

Look at your life. Is there something that you need to improve on? Is there something that you need to give up? Is there anything that may be a cause of Allaah's warning or punishment to you?

“And whatever of misfortune befalls you, it is because of what your hands have earned” [al-Shoora:30]

“A man may be deprived of provision by a sin that he commits.” (Ibn Maajah-saheeh by al-Albaani)

If there is such a thing, NOW is the time to fix yourself. Ask Allaah sincerely to forgive you and He will. There is no doubt in that.For He is al-Ghafoor, ar-Raheem.

‘Ask forgiveness from your Lord, verily, He is Oft-Forgiving. He will send rain to you in abundance, and give you increase in wealth and children, and bestow on you gardens and bestow on you rivers.’”[Nooh 71:10-12]

4. Fear Allaah and obey Him as much as you can:

Obedience is the key to the Mercy of Allaah and fearing Him (taqwa) is a means to attain all success. Allaah says:

“And whosoever fears Allaah and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty). And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine. And whosoever puts his trust in Allaah, then He will suffice him. Verily, Allaah will accomplish his purpose. Indeed Allaah has set a measure for all things” [al-Talaaq:2-3]

5.Make dua and do lots of good deeds

Never forget that Dua is the weapon of the believer. Pray to Allaah with the attitude of certainty and He will surely respond. Do a lot of acts of worship, such as reading Qur’aan, fasting, giving charity, etc. This will get rid of your worry and anxiety, and give you happiness, peace of mind and success in this dunya as well as in the Hereafter.

“Whoever works righteousness — whether male or female — while he (or she) is a true believer; verily, to him We will give a good life (in this world with respect, contentment and lawful provision), and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do (i.e. Paradise in the Hereafter)” (al-Nahl:97)

Also, worship at times of hardship and tribulation has a special sweetness to it and a great reward.

The Prophet (sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) said: “Worshipping at times of tribulation and confusion is like migrating to join me.” (Muslim)

6. Uphold ties of kinship

If there are any family members that you have cut off from or are not on speaking terms, etc., correct that and ask them for forgiveness, even if it was not your fault.

Why?

Because the Prophet (sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) said: “Whoever would like his provision to be increased and his life span to be extended, let him uphold the ties of kinship.”

7. Do your best to seek Halaal earnings.....

Work hard to find a means of living for your family, while relying on Allaah. That is a responsibility placed upon you by Him.

Imam Ahmad was asked about a man who sat in his house or in the masjid and said, “I will not do anything until my rizq comes to me.” He said, “This is a man who has no knowledge.

"Strive to do that which will benefit you and seek the help of Allaah, and do not feel helpless." (Muslim).

BUT, don't lose sight of the Aakhirah

However, do realize that this world is only temporary and the REAL life is that of the Hereafter. This world should not be the main concern of the Muslim, rather our focus should be on what we do for the Aakhirah.

The Prophet (sal Allaahu Alayhi wa sallam) said: “Whoever is mainly concerned about the Hereafter, Allaah will make him feel independent of others and will make him focused and content, and his worldly affairs will fall into place. But whoever is mainly concerned with this world, Allaah will make him feel in constant need of others and will make him distracted and unfocused, and he will get nothing of this world except what is decreed for him.” (Tirmidhi- saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’).

Sunday, August 30, 2009

How many good deeds can you earn in one minute?

Seeking Forgiveness


THE HOLY QURAN :

“Alif Lam Ra.(This is) a Book with verses basic or fundamental (of established meaning) further explained in detail from One Who is Wise and Well-Acquainted (with all things): (It teaches) that you should worship none but Allah. (Say:) ‘Verily I am (sent) unto you from Him to warn and to bring glad tidings. ("And to preach thus) ‘Seek you the forgiveness of your Lord and turn to Him in repentance; that He may grant you enjoyment good (and true) for a term appointed and bestow His abounding grace on all who abound in merit! But if you turn away then I fear for you the Penalty of a Great Day.’ ”(11;1-3)

“But ask forgiveness of your Lord and turn unto Him (in repentance): for my Lord is indeed Full of mercy and loving-kindness.” (11;90)

"But Allah would not punish them while you (Muhammad) were amongst them, nor will He punish them while they seek (Allah's) Forgiveness.” (8;33)

HADITH ON IMPORTANCE OF ISTIGHFAR:

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: If anyone continually asks pardon, Allah will appoint for him a way out of every distress, and a relief from every anxiety, and will provide for him from where he did not reckon. (Abu Dawud)

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “There is (at times) some sort of shade upon my heart, and I seek forgiveness from Allah a hundred times a day.”(Muslim)

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: "By Allah! I ask for forgiveness from Allah and turn to Him in repentance more than seventy times a day."( Bukhari)

THE WAY TO DO ISTIGHFAR:

“Astaghfirullah” – “I seek Allah's forgiveness.” (Muslim),

The Prophet (peace be upon him) would say: “Astaghfiruka wa atoobu ilaik” – “I seek Your forgiveness and return unto You." (Ahmad, Muslim, at-Tirmidhi, Abu Dawud .)

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: "Whoever says, on Friday morning before the salatul fajr: ‘Astaghfirullaahalladhi laa ilaaha illa huwal hayyul qayyumu wa attuubu ilaih’ – ‘I seek the forgiveness of Allah, there is no other god except Him, the Living, the Sustaining, and I repent unto Him,’ three times, Allah will forgive his sins even if they were as abundant as the foam on the sea."

The Prophet ( peace be upon him), said, "The best supplication for forgiveness is to say, 'Allahumma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta, Khalaqtani wa ana 'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa wa'dika mastata'tu. A'udhu bika min sharri ma sana'tu, abu'u laka bini'matika 'alayya wa abu'u laka bidhanbi faghfirli innahu la yaghfirudhdhunuba illa anta (O Allah, You are my Lord, there is no god but You. You created me and I am Your servant, and I try my best to keep my covenant (faith) with You and to live in the hope of Your promise. I seek refuge in You from evil done by me. I acknowledge Your favors upon me and I acknowledge my sins. So forgive me for none forgives sins but You."') The Prophet (peace be upon him), added, "If somebody recites this during the day with firm faith in it, and dies on the same day before the evening, he will be one of the people of Paradise. And if somebody recites it at night with firm faith in it, and dies before the morning, he will be one of the people of Paradise." (Bukhari)

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

25 Golden Rules by the Prophet (SAW)


Hazrat Khalid Bin Waleed (RA) rewayat karty hain k aik dafa aik badu (infamous) NABI-MUAZAM JANAB RISALAT MAAB (SAW) ki khidmat main hazir hua aur arz ki...
Ya Rasool Allah ( SAW ) main Aap (SAW ) sy kuch sawal puchna chahta hun.Aap ( SAW ) ny farmaya....."Pucho........"

1. Usny arz ki.....
Main sab sy bara aalim ban-na chahta hun.
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya..... Takwa ikteyar karo.Sab sy baray aalim ban jao gy.

2.Usny arz ki.....
Main sab sy bara ghani ban-na chahta hun.
APP ( SAW) ny farmaya.....
Qana-at ikhteyar karo.Sab sy baray ghani ban jao gy.


3. Usny arz ki.....
Main sab sy bara aadil ban-na chahta hun.
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Jo tujhy pasand hai wohi duceron k liay pasand karo.Sab sy baray aadil ban jao gy.


4. Usny arz ki.....
Main sab sy acha aadmi ban-na chahta hun.
APP ( SAW) ny farmaya.....
Logon ko nafa pohunchao.Sab sy achay aadmi ban jao gy.


5. Usny arz ki.....
Main duceron sy zayada ALLAH ka khas banda ban-na chahta hun.
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Allah ka zikr kasrat sy keya kro.ALLAH k khas bandon main sy ho jao gy.


6. Usny arz ki.....
Main apny eeman ko kaamil banana chahta hun.
APP ( SAW) ny farmaya.....
Apny ikhlaq achay karo.Tumhara eeman kaamil ho jy ga.


7. Usny arz ki.....
Main mohsineen main sy hona chahta hun.
APP ( SAW) ny farmaya.....
Allahki ibadat aisy kro k tum Usay dekh rahy ho.Agrchah tum Usay nahi dekh rahy hoty lakin Wo tumhain dekh raha hota hai.


8. Usny arz ki.....
Main chahta hun k ALLAH k farma-bardaron main sy ho jaun.
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Faraez ada karo.Farma-bardaron main sy ho jao gy.


9. Usny arz ki.....
Main ALLAH sy gunahon sy paak halat main milna chahta hun.
APP ( SAW) ny farmaya.....
Baad-az janabat foran gusal kr liya kro.ALLAH sy gunahon sy paak halat main milo gy.


10. Usny arz ki.....
Main chahta hun k qayamat k din noor sy uthun.
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.
Apny upar aur kisi duceray per zulm na kro.Qayamat k din Allah noor sy utha-ay ga.

11. Usny arz ki.....
Qayamat k rooz Allah mujh per reham karay.
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Apny upar bhe reham kro aur duceron per bhe reham kr.Qayamat k rooz Allah tum per reham frema-ay ga.

12. Usny arz ki.....
Meray gunah km hon.
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Astagfar ki kasrat kro.Tumhary gunah km ker diay jain gy.


13. Usny arz ki.....
Main logon main sab sy zayada izzat wala ban-na chahta hun.
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Kisi ko apni haajat na batao.Sab sy zayada izzat walay ban jao gy.


14. Usny arz ki.....
Main sab sy zayada taqat-war ban-na chahta hun.
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Allah per tawakal ikhteyar karo.Sab sy zayada taqat-war ban jao gy.


15. Usny arz ki.....
Mera rizq kushada ho.
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Ba-Vuzu raha kro.Tumhara rizq barha diya ja-ay ga.


16. Usny arz ki.....
Qayamat k rooz Allah mujhy apny gusay sy bacha lay.
APP (SAW) ny farmaya.....
Allah ki makhlooq per gusa kerna chor dy.Qayamat k rooz ALLAH k gusay sy bach ja-ay ga.

17. Usny arz ki.....
Main Allah aur Us ke Rasool ( SAW ) ka mehboob ban-na chahta hun.
APP ( SAW) ny farmaya.....
Jo Allah aur Us ke Rasool ( SAW) ko pasand hai tu bhe usay pasand kr.Allah aur Us ke Rasool (SAW ) ka mehboob ban jy ga.


18. Usny arz ki.....
Meri duain kabool hon.
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Haraam khana chor dy.Tumhari duain kabool ker lee jain ge.

19. Usny arz ki.....
Qayamat k rooz Allah zillat sy bacha lay.
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Apny app ko zina sy bacha lay.Allah tujhy zillat sy bacha lay ga.


20. Usny arz ki.....
Qayamat k rooz Allah meray ayub ko chupa dy.
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Apny bhaiyon k ayub ko chupa lo.Allah teray ayub ko chupa lay ga.


21. Usny arz ki.....
Gunahon sy kia cheez nijat dayti hai ?
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Ansoo.Tawazo aur Amraaz.


22. Usny arz ki.....
Sab sy azeem nayki kia hai ?
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Achay akhlaq.Tawazo aur Museebat per sabar.

23. Usny arz ki.....
Sab sy bari burai kia hai ?
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Bad-akhlaqi aur Bukhl.


24. Usny arz ki.....
Duniya aur akhrat main Allah k gusay ko kia cheez thanda kerti hai ?
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Chupkay chupky sadqa kerna aur Sila rahmi.


25. Usny arz ki.....
Qayamat k rooz jahanam ki aag ko kia cheez thanda keray ge ?
APP ( SAW ) ny farmaya.....
Duniya main dukhon aur musebaton per sabar kerna.

Monday, August 24, 2009

A Mother’s Advice To Her Daughter For Marriage




‘Abd al-Malik (RA) said: “When ‘Awf ibn Muhallim al-Shaybani, one of the most highly respected leaders of the Arab nobility during the jahiliyyah, married his daughter Umm Iyas to al-Harith ibn ‘Amr al-Kindi, she was made ready to be taken to the groom, then her mother, Umamah came into her, to advise her and said:

‘O my daughter, if it were deemed unnecessary to give you this advice because of good manners and noble descent, then it would have been unnecessary for you, because you posses these qualities, but it will serve as a reminder to those who are forgetful, and will help those who are wise.

‘O my daughter, if a woman were able to do without a husband by virtue of her father’s wealth and her need for her father, then you of all people would be most able to do without a husband, but women were created for men just as men were created for them.

‘O my daughter, you are about to leave the home in which you grew up, where you first learned to walk, to go to a place you do not know, to a companion to whom you are unfamiliar. By marrying you, he has become a master over you, so be like a servant to him, and he will become like a servant to you.

‘Take from me ten qualities, which will be a provision and a reminder for you.

‘The first and second of them are: be content in his company, and listen to and obey him, for contentment brings peace of mind, and listening to and obeying one’s husband pleases Allah.

‘The third and fourth of them are: make sure that you smell good and look good; he should not see anything ugly in you, and he should not smell anything but a pleasant smell from you. Kohl is the best kind of beautification to be found, and water is better than the rarest perfume.

‘The fifth and sixth of them are: prepare his food on time, and keep quiet when he is asleep, for raging hunger is like a burning flame, and disturbing his sleep will make him angry.

‘The seventh and eighth of them are: take care of his servants (or employees) and children, and take care of his wealth, for taking care of his wealth shows that you appreciate him, and taking care of his children and servants shows good management.

‘The ninth and tenth of them are: never disclose any of his secrets, and never disobey any of his orders, for if you disclose any of his secrets you will never feel safe from his possible betrayal, and if you disobey him, his heart will be filled with hatred towards you.

‘Be careful, O my daughter, of showing joy in front of him when he is upset, and do not show sorrow in front of him when he is happy, because the former shows a lack of judgment whilst the latter will make him unhappy.

‘Show him as much honor and respect as you can, and agree with him as much as you can, so that he will enjoy your companionship and conversation.
‘Know, O my daughter, that you will not achieve what you would like to until you put his pleasure before your own, and his wishes before yours, in whatever you like and dislike. And may Allah choose what is best for you and protect you.”

Jamharah Khutah al-‘ rab, 1/145

Taken from: h p://salafiummi.mul iply.com

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Importance of Surah Fatiha


Surah Fatihah is a prayer that we read every day of our lives. If we make the minimum obligatory Salah that we are supposed to do then we would be making this prayer at least seventeen times a day. The fact that Allah (swt) has obligated us to make this prayer at least
seventeen times a day should show us how important it is. How important then must it be for one to learn this Surah and always reflect on this Surah since your Lord has commanded you to recite it at least seventeen times a day? This Surah is the gateway to our Lord if only one would realize the meanings that it contains.

This surah is called Al-Fatiha which literally means the opening; the Opener of the book and the surah with which prayers are begun. This surah has been given many beautiful names; it is called the Foundation of the Quran and the Essence of the Quran. It is also the seven often repeated verses because Al-Faitha is something that a believer is always reciting. It has also been called The Sufficient; because it actually comprises the entire summary of our faith in Allah. Surah Fatiha and the last verses of Surah Baqarah are two lights given to our Holy Prophet (saw), which were not given to any other Prophet before him. You will never recite a word from them without being given the blessings it contains.

The Holy Prophet (saw) had said about Al-Fatiha that, "By Him in Whose Hand is my soul! Allah has never revealed in the Torah, Injeel, Zabur or the Furqan a surah like it. It is the seven repeated verses that I was given". [Sahih Muslim]

Al-Fatiha is itself a prayer and reciting it is a condition for the correctness of Salah, as recorded by Muslim that Abu Hurayrah (May Allah be pleased with him) said, that the Prophet(Peace be
upon him) said; “Whoever performs any prayer in which he did not read Umm Al-Qur’an (Al-Fatihah), then his prayer is incomplete.” He said it thrice. [Sahih Muslim]

There is another hadith, narrated by Abu Hurayrah (May Allah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (Peace be upon him) said; “Allah the exalted said, ‘I have divided the prayer (Al-Fatihah) into two halves between Me and My servant. A half of it is for Me and a half for My servant, and My servant hall acquire what he asked for.
If he says, ‘All praise and thanks be to Allah, the Lord of existence’,
Allah says, ‘My servant has praised Me.’
When the servant says , ‘The Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.’
Allah says, ‘My servant has lauded Me.’
When he says, ‘Master of the Day of Judgment.’
Allah says, ‘My servant has glorified Me.’
When he says, ‘You (alone) we worship, and You (alone) we ask for help.’,
Allah says, ‘This is between Me and My servant, and My servant shall acquire
what he sought.’
When he says, ‘Guide us to the straight path. The way of those on whom You
have granted Your grace, not (the way) of those who earned Your anger, nor of
those who went astray’,
Allah says, ‘This is for My servant, and My servant shall acquire what he asked
for.’ ” [Sahih Muslim]

Al-Fatihah is not merely an introduction to Qur’an, rather it is a prayer from man and the Qur’an is the answer from his Lord. Thus it has a relationship of a prayer and a response. If a person is an earnest seeker after truth, and recognize that the Lord of the Universe is the source of all knowledge, then he prays to Allah to show him guidance and Allah place the whole of the Qur’an before him in answer to his prayer.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

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The last Sermon delivered by the Holy Prophet (saw)

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